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  • My flare is unreal today. Murder on my street!

    Friday night at 1030 we heard several gun shots. My next door neighbor has been seeing a married woman (Bay's english teacher) fro several months. He met her on the internet and moved here from Vermont in August. Well she divorced her hubby and things were final this week. The ex-hubby showed up at the boyfriends door Friday evening and started shooting threw the door and the boyfriend shot back and killed him. Literally my next door. He was using a 44 magnum and the hand he used different ammo it would have penatrated my house. I soent all night watching this and yesterday filling out police statements for me and Bayleigh. Talk about a flare now. Here is the link to the news, which we all had to avoid like tha plague yesterday.

  • #2
    wow talk about drama!! i am sorry you had to witness all that.i read the article and it said he is beibg charged with murder,the way i read it,it seems pretty much like self defense.the man came to his house and started shooting at him,i would have shot back to ,to defend myself.i wonder if he will go to jail for self defense????


    • #3
      Oh my word!!!

      Diagnosed August 2001

      Current IC meds: Elmiron (since 2001), Levaquin (one pill after intercourse to prevent UTIs), Effexor (for depression & anxiety)

      Past IC meds: Amitriptyline (Elavil), Hydroxyzine (Vistaril), Detrol LA, Lexapro (for depression & anxiety, but also helped my IC) (They all helped, but I was able to discontinue them.)

      I've been virtually symptom free and able to eat & drink whatever I'd like for about 8 years now.


      “We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms -- to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way.” ~ Viktor Frankl

      “You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.” ~ Brian Tracy


      • #4
        Oh my gosh!!!! How horrible!!!!!

        *Diagnosed with severe IC in 2004
        *Also diagnosed with PFD, fibromyalgia, chronic myofascial pain, IBS, migraines, allergies/asthma, dermatographism
        *Kept trying a million different treatments for all these things until I found what works, and I am doing okay these days with the help of a cocktail of medications and the InterStim, which was first placed in 2007. [I have had 2 revisions - one in 2010 when my battery died and had to be replaced, and one complete replacement (lead and generator) in 2012 after a fall on my stairs caused my lead to move.]
        *Current meds include Atarax (50mg at night), Lyrica (150mg twice a day), Xanax (0.5mg at night and as needed), Zanaflex (4mg at night), hydrocodone (10/325, every 6 hours as needed), Advair, Nasonex, Singulair (10mg at night), oral contraceptives, home instills containing Elmiron and Marcaine (as often as I need to do them).

        **I am not a medical authority nor do I offer definitive medical advice. I strongly encourage you to discuss your medical treatment with your personal medical care provider. Only they can, and should, give medical recommendations to you.


        • #5
          Yes it was pretty much self defense. Here is a nother new video and that's my bush with yellow ribbon around it


          • #6
            OMG Leslie, that is so horrible and scary. So sorry that you had to go through that. Hope the flare that was caused by it goes away soon

            I have been diagnoised for 6 1/2 years now. I have taken a long break from the ICN but really miss helping out my fellow IC patients and want to get back into posting.
            1st hydro 4/07 showed no visible signs of IC but tons of mast cells in all my biopsy samples which did prove IC.
            2nd hydro 4/13/09 showed dark purple glomerulations and I had a capacity of 450 cc's. This hydro proved that my IC had progressed.
            I have tried every oral medication as well as rescue instills and DMSO.

            I have been lucky enough to see Dr Hanno, the top IC specialist in PA who has told me due to the fact that I have not responded to any "standard" treatments that I have a severe, end stage case of IC with a horrible quality of life (didn't have to tell me that last part!)

            Proud wifey of Shane, mommy to Griffin, and step-mom to Logan and Gage
            Also proud mom to the best Bullmastiff on earth, Claus


            • #7
              That's so scary. I'm not surprised you're having a stress flare!

              Sending gentle reassuring hugs,
              Stay safe

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              • #8
                Holy moly Leslie!!!! I am just thanking my lucky stars that you all are ok!!!!!!!

                How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time...

                Harry arrived 2/23/09!

                *IC Volunteers are not medical authorities nor do we offer medical advice. In all cases, we strongly encourage you to discuss your medical treatment with your personal medical care provider. Only they can, and should, give medical recommendations to you.

                IC Diet Cheat Sheet:

                IC dx'd Nov 2004
                Lymphocytic Colitis dx'd July 2005
                Possible IBS
                Current IC Meds
                Vistaril 25mg in the evening
                Previous IC Meds taken:
                Cystoprotek - 2 caps 2x's a day
                Elmiron, 100mg 3x's a day
                Ditropan, 5 mg 3x's a day
                Wellbutrin 150mg 2x's a day for Anxiety/IBS
                Pepcid 40mg a day for GERD
                Zytrec for Nasal Allergies
                Align Probiotic daily for IBS


                • #9
                  I can't believe they are charging him with murder, when he had just left the ex in laws threatening to kill them....
                  I am so sorry you and Bay had to see any of this. I also am very grateful that you and your family are all ok.
                  'The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.'


                  • #10
                    Holy cow Leslie. I'm sorry that happened so close to home! Take care of yourself!

                    Hugs, Sandy
                    *IC-- Summer 2004; PFD--October 2005
                    *Fibro--Fall 2000; CFS-- Fall 2000
                    *MPS--Fall 2000; Crohn's disease-- 1997*IBS,GERD, *Migraines, hypothyroidism, GYN problems *Degenerative Disc Disease/scoliosis

                    Total Abdominal Hysterectomy--adenomyosis--9\08

                    04/17/09 Crohn's disease almost killed me with a combo of extreme constipation from pain medications. My bowel ruptured, I almost died from peritonitis and spent several days in the ICU then more in a private room on the floor. If you have any questions about severe constipation from pain meds please don't hesitate to send me a message.


                    • #11
                      Oh, I am so sorry! It's just hard to take in that something like this could happen right next door to you! Of course you're flaring. Take care of yourself. We are all with you in spirit.
                      Je vous souhaite de la joie, de la bonne santée, et tout ce qu'il y a de bon dans la vie.
                      Wishing you happiness and good health, and all the best out of life.

                      Peace, Carolyn

                      Laura (11), Susannah (12 1/2) and Maman (that's me!), North Wildwood NJ, September 2007

                      On the Beach with IC


                      • #12
                        Leslie, that is scary. I would be freaky out too. I am so sorry, that is to close to home. Hope things get back to normal again and you can start feeling safe.
                        just putting angels around your house.



                        • #13
                          Leslie, How terrible! I am so sorry that happened so close to you and your family. I will be praying that your flare will pass quickly and you will feel better soon.
                          IC; PFD; possible Fibromyalgia; IBS;

                          Symptoms: Frequency, Urgency, pelvic and bladder pain, bladder and pelvic spasms, difficulty starting urination, weak stream, incontinence, vaginal and urethral pain

                          I've Tried:
                          three Hydrodistentions, various Rescue Installments; 6 DSMO treatments; Pyridium Plus; Proced; Detrol (patch); Elavil; Uricet K; Elmiron; Nortiptyline; Ultram; Allegra; Ditropan; Ditropan ER; Vesicare; regular Lidocain; Neurontin; Lyrica; and few more I can't remember!
                          Currently using:
                          Valium; Vicadin; Proced DS; Claritin; Buffered Lidocain; Cymbalta; Baclofen; Prazosin @ night (also on Prednisone and Adderall for my joint pain and severe fatigue)
                          Heating pads; frozen water bottles; A&D ointment; Poise pads; IC dieter since 8/06; yoga; imagery & relaxation CD, Mindfullness, self healing CD's; hot baths; seat cushion; prayer
                          I am 28 yrs old, dx'ed in '06, still trying to get my health undercontrol!!


                          • #14
                            OMG, how horrible, so glad that you are OK!
                            Mom to:
                            Ella~born 10/14/03
                            Travis~born 5/8/06

                            Elmiron~2pills 2X a day
                            Elavil~50mg at bedtime
                            Had great results with this for almost 2 years. Currently in a flare since 1/9/07 Trying Urised, lidocane cream, Cystoproteck and now Benadryl at night to try and stop it.


                            • #15
                              Am praying for you.