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venting and need advice. HELP!!!!!!
yesterday my sister in law tonya came up here all drug up she was already told until you get help to stay away from here no trespassing! well she came up here cussing her mom and wanted tyler. Joyce and tyler has moved in with us to get away from her. when she found out tyler wasn't here she started raising tee total heck cussing up a storm and treating me and her mom i went out and told her i told you once i'm telling you the last time to get off my land well she was wanting to fight me (she couldnt even stand up) trust me i wanted to beat the tee total crap out of her but that would be like me jumping on a retarded kid you just can't do that. cussing i called the law 911 person heared her cussing and treating me when they pulled off i tried to get the tag number of the car but couldnt because they got all of here like a bat out of you know where. the drug dealer who bring her up here has no drivers lis. and i don't think he would have brung her up here if he knew this was going to happen he heared me tell the 911 person he is a drug dealer and his car was full of drugs and he was driveing with no lis. they took a report and said i could get a restaining order against her monday now i have to cancel my son's appt for test tomorrow in greenville to take care of this gggggrrrrrr cussing she still has legal custory of tyler but she got a letter from a judge to be in court on the 25th for tyler being out of school so much (SHE DIDN'T GO) so we are to call the judge tomorrow what the law told us yesterday and tell them what is going on for them to hope fully put her in jail. we want her in jail to hopefully dry out. she isn't the same person anymore. she is going around telling people we deal drugs HELLO i have never sold a drug in my like i have to take all my medicine! i'm no fool! I just don't know what to do. I even had to call my cell phone company and have my aswering mechince cut off because of her calling so much cussing everyone out in a way i wish i hadnt where the judge could have listen to it. but she was getting on my nerves so badly. i was getting better from my uti and my flare had stopped now i'm starting to flare again because of this stress. we are hoping she will hit rock bottom enough she would go get help. because now she is going to have no place to live. I couldnt go with them today to get the rest of joyce stuff and tylers because of me filling out this report yesterday and i'm going to inforce it! i'm just hopeing she didn't burn down there house or mess up there stuff last night. she has no way of calling but to go to a neighbors house and they will not call my house number because its long dis. but my cell phone number isn't i thought about changeing that number but the school and doctor office has that number in case they need to get in touch with us and we are not home. what a mess this is i just want peace! i could have told joyce and tyler they couldnt come up here but there lifes are in danger there. I had to help them. any advice i really need it! frown
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Medicine taken daily or as needed:
1. Heaprin and Marcaine rescue installment 1 to 3x daily as needed.
2. MS.Cotin 100mg 3x daily
3. MSIR 30mg 1 or 2 every 4-6hrs as needed for breakthrew pain.
4. Fentanyl 100 mg Change every 48hrs.
5. Gentamicin 80mg install after each rescue treatment
5 Leviquin 500mg self start as needed.
6. Klonopin 1 or 2 daily as needed.
7. Prosed/DS as 1 every 6hrs as needed.
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Rhonda,
Sounds like a huge mess. I am sending you a hug and reminding you to take care of you. grouphug kissingJolene
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Oh Rhonda, what a huge mess, and unfortunately you and your family are in the middle of everything. Please take care of you, you have been through a lot right now yourself, you definitely do not need all the stress. Take care, and lots of prayers, hopefully to help you through this time, love and hugs Iris. hi kissing angel grouphugToday and every day you are loved, so don't be anxious about tomorrow, God will take care of you tomorrow; Live one day at a time.Comment
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(((((((((Rhonda))))))))
I really feel for you and this mess that your family is going through. Talk about stress, huh? I do have a question to ask, and I'm sorry if it may seem insensitive, and please do not get angry, but you have been telling us about how much Brandon is hurting and how much he is going through, and I feel so awful for him, he is too young for all this crap. My question is, can't someone else take care of Tyler's problem? Your son's health should be first and foremost, and I know you feel this way, can't your MIL or hubby go take care of Tyler's problem and you take Brandon to his appt.?
What a mess, I hope things get better soon. grouphug kissing
Hugs and love,
Jess angelMommy to 2 crazy, wonderful kids and wife to the most amazing man in the world!Comment
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It's a tough question. One thing you might consider is to be sure that everyone in your house knows that they need to call 911 if she shows up --- and since you needed help already, the police would have the record. That way you could get the restraining order on Tuesday and take Brandon to his appointment tomorrow. It wouldn't hurt to call the police department and tell them about needing to take your child to his doctor and ask them about some advice. They may be able to send a patrol past your home fairly frequently if they know there's a problem.
Sending encouraging hugs and prayers,
DonnaStay safe
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I called the greenville hosp and they changed Brandon's test to tomorrow evening at 4:30 pm so that will give us time to do everything we need to and still have his test done.
I didn't know if they could change anything on a sunday but i took the chance and called anyway and they did this for me.Medicine taken daily or as needed:
1. Heaprin and Marcaine rescue installment 1 to 3x daily as needed.
2. MS.Cotin 100mg 3x daily
3. MSIR 30mg 1 or 2 every 4-6hrs as needed for breakthrew pain.
4. Fentanyl 100 mg Change every 48hrs.
5. Gentamicin 80mg install after each rescue treatment
5 Leviquin 500mg self start as needed.
6. Klonopin 1 or 2 daily as needed.
7. Prosed/DS as 1 every 6hrs as needed.
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I'm so glad they could reschedule. I know you're going through tough times. I hope your day goes smoothly tomorrow.
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DonnaStay safe
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Greenville called me this morning and said they had to change Brandon's appt to tomorrow Tues at 9 am they ended up over booked and asked if that would be okay so in the morning i'm off to take the children to school includeing tyler we have custory(sp?) of him threw dss and the school now. its been one heck of a day I will finish telling you about it later when i don't have nosey people around me and looking in to see what i'm typeing ggggrrrrrrrrr. banghead cussingMedicine taken daily or as needed:
1. Heaprin and Marcaine rescue installment 1 to 3x daily as needed.
2. MS.Cotin 100mg 3x daily
3. MSIR 30mg 1 or 2 every 4-6hrs as needed for breakthrew pain.
4. Fentanyl 100 mg Change every 48hrs.
5. Gentamicin 80mg install after each rescue treatment
5 Leviquin 500mg self start as needed.
6. Klonopin 1 or 2 daily as needed.
7. Prosed/DS as 1 every 6hrs as needed.
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Rhonda --- Thank you so much for keeping us up to date. I know this has been a horrific time for you and my prayer is that you and your family will be okay now. You are a true angel for taking another child to care for. And tomorrow will say an extra prayer for Brandon.
Warm hugs,
DonnaStay safe
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Click on ICN Shop at the top of this page. You'll find Bladder Builder and Bladder Rest, both of which we are finding have excellent results.
Patient Help: http://www.ic-network.com/patientlinks.html
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Rhonda,
Well a little bit of good news, what a welcome change. I know you are so relieved. Now we all have to start praying for Brandon. Maybe this has started a roll of good luck. Thinking of you and praying for you and your family. Please keep us posted and hang in there.
Hugs,
KimComment
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Hi Rhonda, so glad that things are going a little better for you, and thanks for keeping us up to date, hope things in general keep getting better. Take care and let us know how Brandon is doing. Hugs and my thoughts are with you, Iris. hi grouphugToday and every day you are loved, so don't be anxious about tomorrow, God will take care of you tomorrow; Live one day at a time.Comment
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Brandon had his test today after four hours but they still treated him great!
we want no nothing more about the test until the doctor see the test and calls us to tell us what they found i will let ya'll know when we find out something thanks everyone here in my ic family for your support and careing thoughts
Oh and as far as my inlaws goes everything has gotten better but they ALL are living with us now we did get custory (sp?) of tyler and tonya is getting help now i took her to the er tonight and she starts rehab in the morning. we are so proud she is finally getting help.
Medicine taken daily or as needed:
1. Heaprin and Marcaine rescue installment 1 to 3x daily as needed.
2. MS.Cotin 100mg 3x daily
3. MSIR 30mg 1 or 2 every 4-6hrs as needed for breakthrew pain.
4. Fentanyl 100 mg Change every 48hrs.
5. Gentamicin 80mg install after each rescue treatment
5 Leviquin 500mg self start as needed.
6. Klonopin 1 or 2 daily as needed.
7. Prosed/DS as 1 every 6hrs as needed.
I have IC, but IC doesn't have me anymore!Comment
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Hi Rhonda,
I am glad Tonya is finally able to get help.
Please know that we are all pulling for Brandon. Hang in there!!!
Hugs and love,
JessMommy to 2 crazy, wonderful kids and wife to the most amazing man in the world!Comment
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Wow,
Rhonda, you really are a trooper and an angel to help your inlaws like you are and to try and live your own life as well.
Please take care of yourself as well....I say this all the time but dont always follow it myself, but here goes. You HAVE to take care of yourself before you can care for others that depend on you, no matter what...you said you were starting to flare because of the stress, so think of you, you, you for a while, you deserve a break!
Even if its just locking yourself in your room with a book or a movie, try and find some peace and down time for yourself.
I hope everything works out ok, and I'll be reading to see how things are.
Take care, and good luck. Love, SandyComment
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Rhonda,
Glad to hear your situation is improving. Remember--The sun always shines after the rain--it's just that sometimes the rain lasts longer than we want.
Take care and may God continue to bless you with solutions and a feeling of peace. angel
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