Bonsoir tout le monde! 
So after the 2 urologists left me in pain for monthes, I finally called my GP (who is over a half away away from me sans traffic and uhhhhh...I live in Los Angeles so traffic is practically a given.) and he took pity on me and gave me more Vicodin and Xanax because
a. sex hurts me TERRIBLY, like it almost wouldn't be worth it except for the fact that I love my hubby to bits and it breaks my heart to not have sex with him (by the way, he neeevverr makes me feel guilty about not wanting it, he's the most supportive hubby on the planet);
and b. because I have severe panic attacks during traffic/long exams/ basically anytime where I'm not sure when I'll be able to get to the bathroom. (I think it stems from a seriously traumatic experience I had during rush hour in down town LA)
Anyway, the Xanax does nothing. I see him on Monday and I want to see if he'll give me something else. I'm pretty sure I have PFD as well (btw, how does one diagnose that?) and he said the Xanax should help relax my muscles, but it doesn't work. I originally asked him for Valium, but he said try Xanax first. Does Valium really work better?n Is there an alternative to Xanax that gets rid of panicness + pressure?
Also, I haven't given up drinking because it's one of the few things on the "naughty" list that doesn't bug me. I've already given up coffee, but I'm worried about drinking (and my drinking I don't mean binge drinking, I mean a glass or two of wine with dinner). Has anyone here talked to their doctor about this before? It just seems so unfair that I couldn't even have a glass of wine with dinner and then have sex. Is there a version of Vicodin without the Tylanol in it? I just don't want to trash my liver.
Lol, I can see it all now....
I just want some semblance of a normal life back.
Anyway, thanks in advance for all your help guys!! (Well, gals.
)
A Very Frustrated Kitty

So after the 2 urologists left me in pain for monthes, I finally called my GP (who is over a half away away from me sans traffic and uhhhhh...I live in Los Angeles so traffic is practically a given.) and he took pity on me and gave me more Vicodin and Xanax because
a. sex hurts me TERRIBLY, like it almost wouldn't be worth it except for the fact that I love my hubby to bits and it breaks my heart to not have sex with him (by the way, he neeevverr makes me feel guilty about not wanting it, he's the most supportive hubby on the planet);
and b. because I have severe panic attacks during traffic/long exams/ basically anytime where I'm not sure when I'll be able to get to the bathroom. (I think it stems from a seriously traumatic experience I had during rush hour in down town LA)
Anyway, the Xanax does nothing. I see him on Monday and I want to see if he'll give me something else. I'm pretty sure I have PFD as well (btw, how does one diagnose that?) and he said the Xanax should help relax my muscles, but it doesn't work. I originally asked him for Valium, but he said try Xanax first. Does Valium really work better?n Is there an alternative to Xanax that gets rid of panicness + pressure?
Also, I haven't given up drinking because it's one of the few things on the "naughty" list that doesn't bug me. I've already given up coffee, but I'm worried about drinking (and my drinking I don't mean binge drinking, I mean a glass or two of wine with dinner). Has anyone here talked to their doctor about this before? It just seems so unfair that I couldn't even have a glass of wine with dinner and then have sex. Is there a version of Vicodin without the Tylanol in it? I just don't want to trash my liver.

Lol, I can see it all now....



I just want some semblance of a normal life back.

Anyway, thanks in advance for all your help guys!! (Well, gals.


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