You've got a plan
That's a great start. And, it sounds like that voice inside is telling you to stay, it's your house so go with it.
You're divorce will NOT be cheap. A crack addict changes skin a few dozen times a day and if he's got parents who are willing to enable him, be prepared to fight. Once you have made your decision, no matter how weak in the knees you get, you've got to stand your ground with him. Do you go to Alanon meetings???? IF not, this would be the perfect time to start! You are going to need all the cheap councelling you can get. Do you have a place to go for abused spouses? The abuse doesn't have to just be physical.....it's ANY kind of abuse.
Treat yourself as you would your best friend. Sit down and talk to yourself and LISTEN to what you are saying. You might not like your own answers sometimes but it's your life and it's in your hands right now.
And, if your parents have offered to help, let them. We have 5 kids and trust me, if they didn't want to help, they wouldn't have offered. We've been thru alot with ours, 26-32 and it seems to get harder than easier
but we only offer help when we really really mean it.
sending some gentle hugs Christine kissing

You're divorce will NOT be cheap. A crack addict changes skin a few dozen times a day and if he's got parents who are willing to enable him, be prepared to fight. Once you have made your decision, no matter how weak in the knees you get, you've got to stand your ground with him. Do you go to Alanon meetings???? IF not, this would be the perfect time to start! You are going to need all the cheap councelling you can get. Do you have a place to go for abused spouses? The abuse doesn't have to just be physical.....it's ANY kind of abuse.
Treat yourself as you would your best friend. Sit down and talk to yourself and LISTEN to what you are saying. You might not like your own answers sometimes but it's your life and it's in your hands right now.
And, if your parents have offered to help, let them. We have 5 kids and trust me, if they didn't want to help, they wouldn't have offered. We've been thru alot with ours, 26-32 and it seems to get harder than easier

sending some gentle hugs Christine kissing
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