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Hi Ladies.
I usually try not and post off subject, but I need some advice here. My husband is graduating tomorrow from college, he is getting his master's degree. Well, I am going to be there no matter what, even if I feel like crap. I just pray I feel half way decent. The only bad thing is I have to see my gyne early in the morning for some issues I am having with pain, and she will likely do the whole pelvic exam thing, and I know I am going to be in pain afterwards as I usually always am.
Anyhow, I was going to wait and see how I feel tomorrow after my hubbies graduation before making any huge plans. I figured we would all take my hubby out to dinner,( my dad, his mom, and his dad and me) but I likely wont go since I cant really eat aything out as I am on a strict diet and cannot eat any gluten, but they all can go. Also, if I am in a flare and have to pee all the time, I dont feel comfortable being in a public restroom, and lets face it, who wants to be out when they are in terrible pain.
Well, yesterday my mother-in-law calls me and says, " listen, I dont have time to talk right now, I have a beauty appointment to get my hair done, but just wanted to say I bought a cake for Gary's graduation and we will bring it over after the graduation and celebrate at your house aterwards". Then she says, I know you dont feel well, but anyhow, I got to run, I will talk to you later."
First off, I cant believe she called me at the last minute and told me about the cake. Thank goodness I did not order a cake. I was going to order one the other day and my dad told me to hold off until the day before, as you will usually get a fresher cake. This is true, as I managed a bakery and was a decorater for years and it is true. Anyhow, that is not what made me mad. It made me mad that she did not even bother to ask me if it was ok to come by and have everyone over. She just invited herself, and did not even bother to see how I feel.
She knows I have alot of health issues that knock me down and I dont feel well alot of the times and dont feel like entertaining all the time.
It is going to be a very long day! I have to be up at 5:30 or 6 in the morning so I can be at my doctors appointment. Then The graduation is at 1:30, and we have to leave early as to ensure we get good seating. I know I am going to feel bad after seeing my gyne and after being jabbed around at down there, but I need to see her, as it takes to long to get in to see her if I reschedule. I am going to do a instill later today at home, and hope it does not make things worse. Last week it helped me, but everytime is different for me. I am also having alot of cramps, and my period is not even due for another 8 days.
What if feel really bad tomorrow and dont feel like having all that company? She should never have just taken it upon herself to invite themselves over to my place and wait till the last minute to tell me. I told my dad and he said that she was wrong to do this, especially knowing I am sick. But what can I do, she is my mother in law and I cant be rude as I know it will hurt my husband's feeling's if I say anything to his mom. I told him about it, and he understands my point, but naturally this is an uncomfortable situation as it is his mom.
Sorry for venting. Maybe I am blowing this all out of porportion, but you all know that when you dont feel well, you dont nessasarily feel like entertaining people. I wish she would have asked me first, that's all. And I did not like the fact that she said, " I know you dont feel well, but oh well". Am I wrong about feeling this way?
Jen
I usually try not and post off subject, but I need some advice here. My husband is graduating tomorrow from college, he is getting his master's degree. Well, I am going to be there no matter what, even if I feel like crap. I just pray I feel half way decent. The only bad thing is I have to see my gyne early in the morning for some issues I am having with pain, and she will likely do the whole pelvic exam thing, and I know I am going to be in pain afterwards as I usually always am.
Anyhow, I was going to wait and see how I feel tomorrow after my hubbies graduation before making any huge plans. I figured we would all take my hubby out to dinner,( my dad, his mom, and his dad and me) but I likely wont go since I cant really eat aything out as I am on a strict diet and cannot eat any gluten, but they all can go. Also, if I am in a flare and have to pee all the time, I dont feel comfortable being in a public restroom, and lets face it, who wants to be out when they are in terrible pain.
Well, yesterday my mother-in-law calls me and says, " listen, I dont have time to talk right now, I have a beauty appointment to get my hair done, but just wanted to say I bought a cake for Gary's graduation and we will bring it over after the graduation and celebrate at your house aterwards". Then she says, I know you dont feel well, but anyhow, I got to run, I will talk to you later."
First off, I cant believe she called me at the last minute and told me about the cake. Thank goodness I did not order a cake. I was going to order one the other day and my dad told me to hold off until the day before, as you will usually get a fresher cake. This is true, as I managed a bakery and was a decorater for years and it is true. Anyhow, that is not what made me mad. It made me mad that she did not even bother to ask me if it was ok to come by and have everyone over. She just invited herself, and did not even bother to see how I feel.
She knows I have alot of health issues that knock me down and I dont feel well alot of the times and dont feel like entertaining all the time. It is going to be a very long day! I have to be up at 5:30 or 6 in the morning so I can be at my doctors appointment. Then The graduation is at 1:30, and we have to leave early as to ensure we get good seating. I know I am going to feel bad after seeing my gyne and after being jabbed around at down there, but I need to see her, as it takes to long to get in to see her if I reschedule. I am going to do a instill later today at home, and hope it does not make things worse. Last week it helped me, but everytime is different for me. I am also having alot of cramps, and my period is not even due for another 8 days.
What if feel really bad tomorrow and dont feel like having all that company? She should never have just taken it upon herself to invite themselves over to my place and wait till the last minute to tell me. I told my dad and he said that she was wrong to do this, especially knowing I am sick. But what can I do, she is my mother in law and I cant be rude as I know it will hurt my husband's feeling's if I say anything to his mom. I told him about it, and he understands my point, but naturally this is an uncomfortable situation as it is his mom.
Sorry for venting. Maybe I am blowing this all out of porportion, but you all know that when you dont feel well, you dont nessasarily feel like entertaining people. I wish she would have asked me first, that's all. And I did not like the fact that she said, " I know you dont feel well, but oh well". Am I wrong about feeling this way?
Jen
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