I just wanted to update everyone on the child custody situation..
We all went to the hearing last week and the good news was Doms ex could not prove he was in any kind of contemp of court so all that was thrown out. And as soon as the hearing officer and the counserlors seen the Doctors report on Derrion 12< who is a little mentally challenged they awarded us full custody.. So we were excited about that..
Now we were trying to get his 11 year old daughter to but her mom was giving us a fight and being only thing we had that showed her mom was not in her best interest was her school attendence so that really was not enough.. So we left there thinking we would just have to go to court and fight for her, BUT the strange thing was is we got a phone call from the ex saying she really wanted to work all this out so we agreed to take Derrion during the school year and we have full custody she will have him every weekend and split holidays and he stays with mom every 2 weeks in the summer. We are keeping it the same with the daughter she stays with us 2 weeks and her mom 2 weeks and stays in the same school by our house this is what she wanted, she wanted equal time with both.. So we agreed and thinks this is best for the kids as of now..
I think the ex is pushing a little hard though because she even suggested on birthdays we ALL take the kids out for dinner..<sigh> I dunt think so! But honestly I want whats best for the kids so I might sacrifice one day to make them happy..
Well I just wanted to thank all of you for your kind words and support.. Cindy you are such a sweetheart you helped me when I needed it the most.. and BabsRn.. Your advice was awsome!! Glad we both got what we wanted
Ronda
We all went to the hearing last week and the good news was Doms ex could not prove he was in any kind of contemp of court so all that was thrown out. And as soon as the hearing officer and the counserlors seen the Doctors report on Derrion 12< who is a little mentally challenged they awarded us full custody.. So we were excited about that..
Now we were trying to get his 11 year old daughter to but her mom was giving us a fight and being only thing we had that showed her mom was not in her best interest was her school attendence so that really was not enough.. So we left there thinking we would just have to go to court and fight for her, BUT the strange thing was is we got a phone call from the ex saying she really wanted to work all this out so we agreed to take Derrion during the school year and we have full custody she will have him every weekend and split holidays and he stays with mom every 2 weeks in the summer. We are keeping it the same with the daughter she stays with us 2 weeks and her mom 2 weeks and stays in the same school by our house this is what she wanted, she wanted equal time with both.. So we agreed and thinks this is best for the kids as of now..
I think the ex is pushing a little hard though because she even suggested on birthdays we ALL take the kids out for dinner..<sigh> I dunt think so! But honestly I want whats best for the kids so I might sacrifice one day to make them happy..

Well I just wanted to thank all of you for your kind words and support.. Cindy you are such a sweetheart you helped me when I needed it the most.. and BabsRn.. Your advice was awsome!! Glad we both got what we wanted

Ronda
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