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    Well, I had been thinking of renting out a hotel suite for my graduation party, so I drove around town asking for prices. Finally, I came to a place called the Crown, and decided to ask them. Here's my paraphrasing of the conversation with the employee, who we will call "Sky".

    Me: Hi there! I was just wondering, do you have any spaces available for little get-togethers, like little parties and stuff?

    Sky: Well, we have one big room, but it's rented out.

    Me: Oh, I see. Sorry to bother you.
    [At this point, I went back into the car, but my mom encouraged me to go back out and ask more questions]

    Me: Hi, sorry to bother you again. I was just wondering, how many people would be allowed in one normal room at a time?

    Sky: Oh, I'd say up to six.

    Me: Wow, really? So, with two conjoined rooms, I could have about 12 people over for party?

    Sky: Yeah, I'd say so.

    Me: Wow, awesome! How much would that be? I would only be needing the rooms for a few hours; maybe from 6 PM to 11 PM.

    Sky: Well, they would still be full price, but you could get them both for just under $100.

    Me: Oh, wow! Can you hold two rooms for me for June 8th?

    Sky: Sure. Just come back tomorrow with the deposit so I can make the reservation official.

    So, I finally made all my invitations and gave them out to all the guests the next day. After the practice session for our graduation ceremony, I went back to the hotel. Instead of the guy we are calling "Sky", there was a blonde woman. I told her that the dude I had spoken to offered me two conjoined rooms for a grad party, and she seemed surprised. When I told her I intended to invite 11 other people, she became somewhat exasperated, and said "Sky" had the bad habit of agreeing to everything. She said that she was almost sure the manager wouldn't allow it. We went back and forth until, finally, she just told me to come back and talk to Sky when his shift started at 8.

    Well, I didn't want to wait for them to change their story again! When I went back at 8, I turned on my phone's recording feature and slipped it in my purse. Now, there were two completely different people there, who completely denied every last thing that "Sky" had told me. They said only 3 people were ever allowed at one room at a time, and that under no circumstances would I ever be allowed to have a party there. I kept going back and forth until my phone ran out of memory, and, clear as a bell, loudly announced: END OF RECORDING. NO MEMORY SPACE

    At that point, they completely refused to speak to me. I left in tears. I just finished calling every last guest and explaining to them, in my shaking voice, that I guess I wasn't having that grad party after all. I feel so dumb. I know recording people without their permission or consent is a crime. Do you think they would be spiteful enough to try to get me in legal trouble for it? One of my friends suggested suing them for false advertising, but I sure can't do that now, after I tried to bug our conversation right in front of the security camera. I just got so mad at them for changing their story like that, ugh!

    Oh, and where should I have my graduation party now? I tried some other local hotels, but a lot of them want me to be 21 to rent out a room, and many of the inns don't even have any conjoined rooms or suites to have parties in. I wish I could just have it at my house, but I don't have a house; I live in a tiny two-bedroom apartment. I was thinking of maybe bringing this up with my landlady, who has known me for years, and offering her $100 to let me use on of the empty apartments in our complex for just a few hours. Do you think that would work?

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  • #2
    It never hurts to ask . But you need to explain party to whoever you are asking because when you say party most people think of a bunch of kids getting together drinking and such so please clarify what your intentions are ((((((((hugs)))))))) Hope you find something and I am so glad to see you out being able to do teen things
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    • #3
      I agree with LeeLee on this one good luck fishy, and so sorry the hotel fell thru.
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      • #4
        I'm sorry the hotel fell through for you. I was able to have my daughter's birthday party in a hotel (Radisson, I think) last year, five people in each of two connecting rooms. They wouldn't allow more than five, two double beds and a cot. The management knew what we were doing and they were fine with it. A lot of teenagers have these kinds of parties around here. It was actually an overnight party, but I don't think it would have mattered to them if we had checked out at 1:00 am instead of 9:00 am. I'm surprised you can't find any hotel that will allow it, but then again I live in a very densely populated area, suburban to New York City, and there are a whole lot of hotels within reach.

        It is not a crime to record a conversation without consent, per se. It depends on what you do with it. The laws vary by state; I don't know where you are, but I am aware of three states that explicitly allow recorded conversations to be used as evidence in a trial, so long as one of the parties was aware that the conversation was being recorded. If this is really worrying you, PM me the state and I'll look up the specific law for you.
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        • #5
          Well, I spent yesterday scurrying around the city and calling up hotels. I finally was able to find one that would let me rent out a nicely furnished meeting room for just $50. It is very cute, and would fit up to 20 people comfortably. Now I’m just glad I didn’t give up after what happened at the first hotel. The victory is still a little bittersweet, though. I had to change the date of the party, and now, a close friend of mine who is leaving for the summer will not be able to attend. But the party will still take place on a Friday, and it will still take place at the same time of day I originally planned. So, it’s still good that I kept on trying. I called everyone up yesterday and told them about the new plans, and I’m going to make new invitations a little later today.

          Guys, thank you for being there for me when I was so upset about this. Otherwise, I might have gotten so upset about it that I would have given up on the idea of a party altogether.


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          • #6
            I'm glad things are working out for you so you can have your party. Hope you have a great time!


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            • #7
              Green...I hope your party is great and that everyone has a good time.
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