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  • Doctor issues . . . finally getting fed up :)

    So, I haven't been diagnosed yet, but I am pretty sure that I have IC. The only problem is, I have been trying to get somebody to help me out w/ my bladder issues for YEARS, to no avail. I finally had an experience this week that caused me to say, this is it! I am so glad that I found this site because I found a recommendation for a doctor in my city. I've already submitted my info to their website for an appointment.

    I started having recurrent UTIs at 15 (I'm now in my 30s) - base rate is 3-4 a year, sometimes more often, never less often.

    Once I hit college, every few times I would go in for what I thought was a UTI, my urine culture, dipstick, etc. would come back clean. I also started noticing that I would get an "infection" after drinking too much coffee or drinking alcohol the night before. Now, I know that coffee can't give you an infection, but thinking that maybe I was just more prone to getting one when dehydrated, I told my doctor this. He basically laughed in my face, when what he should have done is put two and two together - clean culture, sensitivity to bladder irritants, maybe some testing? no.

    At one point I was almost constantly having symptoms, and I finally went to a uro. All he did was put me on 6 mos of antibiotics. This helped, sort of. It brought me back down to my usual 3-4 a year.

    Fast forward, almost 10 years later . . . I'm having a pretty rapid increase in symptoms. Now, I pretty much constantly have a low level of bladder pain.

    Frequency has increased dramatically. I just finished grad school. Last year, I couldn't sit through an hour class, going to the bathroom right before it started, without having to go really badly at the end. Just a couple of months ago, I started having to get up in the night. Every night.

    The infections have gotten worse (if they are all infections, of which I am not convinced). Not in frequency, but with the attendant pain. I will go from baseline low level irritation to a 10 on the pain scale after going to the bathroom. I can tell that it is going to happen right before I go. I will just have to sit on the toilet and pee small bits every few minutes for 30 mins to an hour until I can get to the kitchen to get some pyridium or utira c. Once that kicks in, I feel a little better. Better enough to get off of the toilet, at least.

    I said to myself, I really need to make sure that I have a regular physician to help me out with this. So I went to one a couple of months ago so I could establish a relationship and told her about my issues, about the pain with the bladder infections, etc. Well, I got one this week, called her office first thing 8:30 Monday morning. Spoke to the nurse, who told me the Dr. was out, but she would talk to another Dr and call me back.

    Around 11, I called again, because I was in an extreme amount of pain, and it went straight to voicemail, so I left a message pleading for someone to call me back about the pain. Didn't happen. Again at 1:30 - receptionist says the nurse is "out to lunch still" but that she'll make sure she calls when she gets back.

    Finally, I called again at 10 until 4, on hold for 10 minutes, straight to voicemail. Couldn't get ahold of another nurse, another doctor, anybody. I called the patient complaint line for the clinic (it's a pretty decent sized academic medical center's facility) and spoke with someone there. Finally got the nurse to call me back.

    They aren't doing a urine culture. Just a call in for antibiotics. I was too emotional at that point to talk about the pain or another prescription for utira c (which it looks like may be discontinued?)

    I have never felt so uncared for in my life. I wrote my doctor a polite email describing the day, and basically "fired" her. The worst thing about it is, this clinic is supposed to follow the "patient-centered medical home" model, where you are supposed to have better access to your physician. Talk about lip service with no follow through.

    Last month when I went to the gyno I told her I was having IC symptoms too. She did a urine culture, which came back negative, big surprise. Still no recommendations for further testing, nothing.

    Hopefully I will get an appointment with this doctor that others suggested on the site. He specializes in pelvic pain.

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    to the IC Network. Be sure to let us know when you get the appointment.

    I hope you will get some answers; the worst time is not knowing.

    Warm hugs,
    Donna
    Stay safe


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    • #3
      I was 'rushed through' several dr. appointments at first. I finally got to the point where I would right off the bat say -" What else can we check and what else can we do? I've had this too long and it's not going away." It's almost like I had to bar the door so they couldn't run out until I got some answers! I had gone through about three drs. before I found one that actually listened and got back to me when I needed help. I think a lot of us here have gone through this type of thing and it gets really frustrating. Hang in there and be persistent. You may need to change drs. a few times before you find one you can work with.

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      • #4
        Unbelievable!(or not ) Actually, a lot of what you wrote sounds similar to what I went through too. I'm so sorry this is happening to you! But,...good for you for sticking up for yourself and pushing on! I hate to admit it, but I gave up. I figured I just had to learn to live with it. I wish I had done as you are doing and kept searching!

        I hope this new doctor will finally be the person who helps you!
        Vicki
        "The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have."

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        • #5
          Thanks for the replies ladies.

          It's so strange how some med professionals aren't taking it seriously . . . not to vilify the medical profession. I'm taking the bar in a couple of weeks and I hate it when people do the same to attorneys. Just need to find the right Dr I suppose . . .

          Finally just called back the last gyno I saw (not the dr who wouldn't get back to me), and left a message asking if she would call in a prescription of Urelle or one of the other "blues" for me - they usually help the best. Right now I'm taking over the counter pyridium and it helps with the burning, but I still feel like my bladder is clenched in a fist.

          500 mg Cipro twice a day hasn't put a dent in it (although I'm better than Monday, for sure). I also dipped my urine myself this a.m. and was positive for leukocytes but not nitrites. I'm going to continue to take the antibiotics like I'm supposed to though, and just keep my fingers crossed that somebody will give me an rx for an anti-spas to hold me over until I can get an appointment with that pelvic pain specialist.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Proserpina View Post
            It's so strange how some med professionals aren't taking it seriously . . . not to vilify the medical profession. I'm taking the bar in a couple of weeks and I hate it when people do the same to attorneys. Just need to find the right Dr I suppose . . .
            I think you're exactly right here. My feeling is that many doctors are rushed, don't listen well, and/or are complacent to take the easy way out. Bladder irritation is likely to be UTI so prescribe antibiotics and out the door! Next patient........!

            Finding the right one is so important and can take a bit of shopping!
            "The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have."

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            • #7
              You Are Worth the Fight

              Like others have stated, I am so very proud of you. You have the right to be heard and treated with the upmost respect and care. I believe as you continue on the journey everything you need will be provided. Do not give up! Keep the faith!

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              • #8
                those Drs.

                Well, your right. Tell them the UTI symtomes and all of a sudded your prescription is ready. Hold on, do a urine culture, is it's clean, ( noBugs) then it is very possibly IC.
                Take IC info with you to your next visit. To every visit to a new DR. I really believe they are not well educated on IC. and its easy for them to just send you out the door thinking it's a UTI.
                A Urologist would be helpful. If he's not to out of touch with last 30 years of education. I say take the IC info. symtoms etc. Try the IC diet ( for real).
                So sorry you were treated this way, You know It's all about the $ and the more they can push thru the door the better for them, Of course, that make its extremely busy for their nurse and she can't get to the phone as well as she may really need to.
                Good luck to you.
                Lizzie_71

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                • #9
                  sounds like a few of the horrible experiences ive had w/ uneducated docs about ic in my lifetime... if u do end up having ic or pelvic pain make sure to get a referral to a pain management doc or try acupuncture i wish u well sorry u have to be here
                  Newly IC diagnosed as of February 2011.

                  Medications I'm on that seem to work:
                  Zoloft- one once a day
                  Butrans pain patch 5 mcg (THANK GOD FOR WHOEVER INVENTED THIS!SO MUCH PAIN RELIEF ITS UNREAL,I AM IN NO PAIN AT ALL UNLESS I STRESS OR SCREW UP ON THE DIET)

                  Failed Meds:
                  Elmiron-after 4 months,digestive side effects got to be too much
                  tramadol-allergic
                  DMSO treatments(5-6)
                  probiotics

                  THERAPIES:gardening,cooking,IC Diet,Counseling,Lots of warm baths,stress reduction,heating pad or ice packs,meditation/deep breathing,listening to relaxing music,having fun on pain free days,drinking chamomile or peppermint tea,pelvic floor physical therapy
                  AROMATHERAPY-candles,incense
                  Village Naturals Aches and Pains Peppermint Bath Salts
                  Johnson and Johnsons Lavender Melt Away Stress Body Wash/Lotion

                  ACUPUNCTURE/HERBS
                  Significant pain relief so far.

                  MAY TRY:yoga,swimming/hydrotherapy and anti-candida diet if i can kick my sugar addiction
                  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
                  ***TO MY IC SISTERS AND BROTHERS:WE ARE OUR OWN ADVOCATES!,PLEASE DO AS MUCH RESEARCH ON YOUR OWN AS POSSIBLE AND TRY DIFFERENT TREATMENTS TO GET WELL.NOT ONE TREATMENT WORKS FOR EVERYONE.MOST IMPORTANTLY,TRY TO KEEP A POSITIVE ATTITUDE,DISTANCE YOURSELF FROM NEGATIVITY/NEGATIVE PEOPLE AND NEVER,EVER GIVE UP!***

                  Add me on facebook Angela Hasic

                  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
                  Lord, make me an instrument of your peace;
                  where there is hatred, let me sow love;
                  when there is injury, pardon;
                  where there is doubt, faith;
                  where there is despair, hope;
                  where there is darkness, light;
                  and where there is sadness, joy.
                  Grant that I may not so much seek
                  to be consoled as to console;
                  to be understood, as to understand,
                  to be loved as to love;
                  for it is in giving that we receive,
                  it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
                  and it is in dying [to ourselves] that we are born to eternal life.

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                  • #10
                    and good for you glad this site is helping u finally get the help u need!be your own advocate and fight the ic fight
                    Newly IC diagnosed as of February 2011.

                    Medications I'm on that seem to work:
                    Zoloft- one once a day
                    Butrans pain patch 5 mcg (THANK GOD FOR WHOEVER INVENTED THIS!SO MUCH PAIN RELIEF ITS UNREAL,I AM IN NO PAIN AT ALL UNLESS I STRESS OR SCREW UP ON THE DIET)

                    Failed Meds:
                    Elmiron-after 4 months,digestive side effects got to be too much
                    tramadol-allergic
                    DMSO treatments(5-6)
                    probiotics

                    THERAPIES:gardening,cooking,IC Diet,Counseling,Lots of warm baths,stress reduction,heating pad or ice packs,meditation/deep breathing,listening to relaxing music,having fun on pain free days,drinking chamomile or peppermint tea,pelvic floor physical therapy
                    AROMATHERAPY-candles,incense
                    Village Naturals Aches and Pains Peppermint Bath Salts
                    Johnson and Johnsons Lavender Melt Away Stress Body Wash/Lotion

                    ACUPUNCTURE/HERBS
                    Significant pain relief so far.

                    MAY TRY:yoga,swimming/hydrotherapy and anti-candida diet if i can kick my sugar addiction
                    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
                    ***TO MY IC SISTERS AND BROTHERS:WE ARE OUR OWN ADVOCATES!,PLEASE DO AS MUCH RESEARCH ON YOUR OWN AS POSSIBLE AND TRY DIFFERENT TREATMENTS TO GET WELL.NOT ONE TREATMENT WORKS FOR EVERYONE.MOST IMPORTANTLY,TRY TO KEEP A POSITIVE ATTITUDE,DISTANCE YOURSELF FROM NEGATIVITY/NEGATIVE PEOPLE AND NEVER,EVER GIVE UP!***

                    Add me on facebook Angela Hasic

                    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
                    Lord, make me an instrument of your peace;
                    where there is hatred, let me sow love;
                    when there is injury, pardon;
                    where there is doubt, faith;
                    where there is despair, hope;
                    where there is darkness, light;
                    and where there is sadness, joy.
                    Grant that I may not so much seek
                    to be consoled as to console;
                    to be understood, as to understand,
                    to be loved as to love;
                    for it is in giving that we receive,
                    it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
                    and it is in dying [to ourselves] that we are born to eternal life.

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