Please talk to me ladies. This is the only place where I am honest about how "bad" it gets, and the only place I can get the advice I need. I hope some people will respond.
I have been married for almost 5 years. I had to quit working 3 years ago. I stay home most all the time. I had a disasterous stim surgery that has left me with chronic back pain and leg pain. I don't have any reason to think I wouldn't be able to conceive. Its caring for the baby I am worried about. I think about it, when I have been up all night in the bathroom and I finally just want to GO TO BED..What would I do if I had a baby? I want to have a baby, but I also need to be realistic. I know none of you here are going to say they wished they would have done differently, because children are a blessing. When you are really sick, how do you handle it? I am asking what you would do if you could do over. If you KNOW you are housebound, is it fair to have a baby?? OR, would I gain a sense of purpose and be motivated to try harder???
I am confused, please help.
I have been married for almost 5 years. I had to quit working 3 years ago. I stay home most all the time. I had a disasterous stim surgery that has left me with chronic back pain and leg pain. I don't have any reason to think I wouldn't be able to conceive. Its caring for the baby I am worried about. I think about it, when I have been up all night in the bathroom and I finally just want to GO TO BED..What would I do if I had a baby? I want to have a baby, but I also need to be realistic. I know none of you here are going to say they wished they would have done differently, because children are a blessing. When you are really sick, how do you handle it? I am asking what you would do if you could do over. If you KNOW you are housebound, is it fair to have a baby?? OR, would I gain a sense of purpose and be motivated to try harder???
I am confused, please help.
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