Hubby wants another baby???

[Jazzy Baby]

I already have 3 girls. Rachael is 5, and the twins, Morgan and Monica are 3. They are a big handfull. We have always talked about having a boy someday, but my hubby always says that he doesnt want another one. Now he does. I dont know if I do now. What if I have another set of twin girls. Or triplet. Both run in my mothers side bad. My twins are identical, so they were handed down through the family,I read a book, and it said if the twins are fraternal, its an act of nature, but if they are identical, its through the females, mothers jeans. So, I am hit. I want a boy so bad, but even if I were have a set of boy twins, I would go insane. I know I could handle one more child, but 2 more, no way, I cant do it. I cant do twin infants again, it was hard. I really dont know what to do. I guess I will talk to my doc. Just wanted to get my feelings out. Thanks for listening.

[guitarmama]

Maybe if you could wait until your youngest two are in school it would be easier? Also I used to work with a guy who had 6 girls,yep,they just kept trying for a boy. <img src="graemlins/lmao.gif" border="0" alt="[lmao]" />

[KBee42]

You have three kids. That's a lot. It's nice I guess that your hubby wants to 'try again', but who is the primary childcare person in your house? If it's you, than I would suggest that hubby prove to you that your family is capable of absorbing one or two (or three!) more without all of the extra work falling on your shoulders.

I want a houseboat.. if my parents will pay for it. If I have to pay for it myself then I re-think things.

If your darling husband wants another, then he should have to prove that he'll invest an equal amount of time into childcare.. or he's demanding not only a child, but that you work to care for it.

Why shouldn't he want another one if that's the case? Free baby!

If he's equally invested and he works hard with the kids just like you do, then you'll have to judge whether or not you can handle another one.

Good luck and take care of yourself!

[Jazzy Baby]

Ok, we talked about it, and I just told him straight out that I cannot handle another child. He works 70 hours a week, and I take full care of the children. I decided I would go and get him a dog. Molly is my dog, so I thought, he can have his own dog. Well, didnt think about the sex of the dog. I got another female.......lol. Now there are 6 woman against him...lol. He loves his puppy though, but ofcourse, I take care of her. She has had me up all night every night since I brought her home. I crate train my dogs, but she doesnt like the crate at all. She just yelps. She wants to be under our bed when she is sleeping. If only I could fit that crate under the bed....lol.
Anyway, all is settled, we are not having another child. It would just be too much on me. We are blessed with 3, and that is enough.