OMG, I am SO upset right now everyone. Upset enough to be considering a divorce from my husband.
I am in California right now and he is still in Hawaii. He was supposed to be coming over a couple days after I came here but have decided to wait a couple weeks to come over here. So I am here waiting for him.
But anyway, that isnt why I am upset. Here is the situation. Before I left we met the people who live 2 houses down from us. We went to their house one night for a bonfire and they were nice but that was the only time we hung out with them. Well since I have been gone from Hawaii, my husband has gone over there a couple times. I was okay with that, nothing wrong with that. But last week he went over there and had dinner over there. Now this wouldnt be a big deal except the people who live there are a couple and the girls sister just moved there from Ca. She is only 20 and totally gorgeous with a killer body. My husband made several uh.....comments about her before I left that kinda made me feel weird. But I am SO not the jealous type and wasnt really upset.
However, I WAS very upset when I found out that he had dinner over there with just the four of them! I couldnt believe that, I thought that was totally inappropriate. I was very upset. I mean upset enough that I was sick to my stomach and unable to breathe. So we fought over that for 2 days b/c he wouldnt apologize and said I was being a physco and a jealous little child.
Well we made up over that and he said he wouldnt go over there again while I was gone. I said I dont care if you go hang out with the guy, just dont go to dinner with just the 4 of you.
Well last night he called me and he had gone over there for dinner with just the four of them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I was so freakin mad, I couldnt see straight. And he told me he was going over there and I said I would be VERY upset but I wouldnt tell him " NO DONT GO" I am not going to forbid him to do anything. But he went anyway, knowing how much it would hurt me. He went even knowing that last time he went, we fought worse than we ever have before.
I just cant believe this. I am sick over this. Literally sick. He has changed everything in our life by doing this.
And the worst part is he wont apologize or act sorry in any way. He keeps calling me a little child and saying things like " Okay you little baby, okay you little 16 year old crazy child. I didnt know you were a physco jealous bleep" He KNOWS I am not a jealous person. I am just not. But this is not okay. This is disrespectful and inappropriate to do this. If the tables were turned, I know he wouldnt like it.
I just dont know what to do. I am refusing to speak to him right now b/c I am so upset. I dont want to end up saying something I regret. I just feel so hurt and just so shocked. I am in disbelief. Why would he do this to me? Doesnt he care about hurting me?
Desperate,
Sarah
I am in California right now and he is still in Hawaii. He was supposed to be coming over a couple days after I came here but have decided to wait a couple weeks to come over here. So I am here waiting for him.
But anyway, that isnt why I am upset. Here is the situation. Before I left we met the people who live 2 houses down from us. We went to their house one night for a bonfire and they were nice but that was the only time we hung out with them. Well since I have been gone from Hawaii, my husband has gone over there a couple times. I was okay with that, nothing wrong with that. But last week he went over there and had dinner over there. Now this wouldnt be a big deal except the people who live there are a couple and the girls sister just moved there from Ca. She is only 20 and totally gorgeous with a killer body. My husband made several uh.....comments about her before I left that kinda made me feel weird. But I am SO not the jealous type and wasnt really upset.
However, I WAS very upset when I found out that he had dinner over there with just the four of them! I couldnt believe that, I thought that was totally inappropriate. I was very upset. I mean upset enough that I was sick to my stomach and unable to breathe. So we fought over that for 2 days b/c he wouldnt apologize and said I was being a physco and a jealous little child.
Well we made up over that and he said he wouldnt go over there again while I was gone. I said I dont care if you go hang out with the guy, just dont go to dinner with just the 4 of you.
Well last night he called me and he had gone over there for dinner with just the four of them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I just cant believe this. I am sick over this. Literally sick. He has changed everything in our life by doing this.
And the worst part is he wont apologize or act sorry in any way. He keeps calling me a little child and saying things like " Okay you little baby, okay you little 16 year old crazy child. I didnt know you were a physco jealous bleep" He KNOWS I am not a jealous person. I am just not. But this is not okay. This is disrespectful and inappropriate to do this. If the tables were turned, I know he wouldnt like it.
I just dont know what to do. I am refusing to speak to him right now b/c I am so upset. I dont want to end up saying something I regret. I just feel so hurt and just so shocked. I am in disbelief. Why would he do this to me? Doesnt he care about hurting me?
Desperate,
Sarah
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