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  • It is going to be a long night!!!

    I am in extreme pain. I am extremely upset right now. My husband has decided that he is mad at me but wont tell me why? He wont speak to me and he wont look at me and it is just more than I can take most times. It is really hard right now. I know that stress makes all my IC and Fibro stuff worse, and I have been trying to just let him do his own thing but it doesn't work.
    I am very tired too so that can't be helping much either. Thank you for the ear for me to bend for a bit.
    Started Vaginal Valium Suppositories April 2014
    Hysterectomy April 2003 (for abdominal pain),Diagnosed with IC August 2003
    Diagnosed with Pelvic Floor Disorder 2004,Had right ovary and fallopan tube removed 2005
    Diagnosed with diverticulosis 2006,Interstim December 2006,Home Instillations 2007-not effective
    Diagnosed with Fibromyalgia November 2007,Appendectomy February 2008,
    Interstim repair December 2008,Removal of the Interstim August 2011,
    6 Hydrodistentions from 2003-2009 Diagnosed with restless leg syndrome March 2014
    Diagnosed with Raynaud's Syndrome November 2013
    Ambien 5mg for sleep.
    Elivil 50 mg at bed
    Lisinopril 20mg in AM
    Effexor 225 mg
    Oxycodone 10 mgs 2 x a day for pain
    Baclofen 20mg 3x a day
    Phenazopyridine 200 mg as needed
    Omeprazole 20 mg at night
    Lyrica 450 mg daily
    Requip .50 mg at night
    Ketorolac 10 mg as needed for migraines

  • #2
    I wish I could help.

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    • #3
      I'm so sorry! It's bad enough that you're in pain but then he has to add to it?

      He must be awfully angry to be behaving as you describe! Hopefully he'll calm down soon and be able to talk to you about whatever is going on.
      "The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have."


      • #4
        Wow do I know where you are coming from!!! (why do they DO that??) well, I think part of it is the male brain has a wired-in 'FIX IT' mentality, and when they can't it makes them real frustrated and sometimes angry. It might help if you can ever find the right timing to say so, that you don't always need him to fix what's wrong because it's just not a possible thing, but all you'd really like from him is just for him to listen with sympathy for just a short while. Hope u feel better soon !