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    So it has been a long and exhausting, emotionally draining, and severely depressing last couple of years. This last two months though really seem to be taking everything out of me. I am in so much pain that I can barely survive everyday. My husband and I are living two separate lives. Don't get me wrong I love him and he loves me, but it is like we are roommates and just living together.
    Just when I think that I am doing well mentally something like this happens. So in general my husband tells me that I have raised our kids because he was in the military and was gone a lot. Then he says things like well our kids are spoiled and vain and that the difference between my kids and him as a child is he had no idea about money. Ours have a sense of money and that is why they are terrible with money because they are so spoiled and vain.
    It hurt my feelings alot and when I said how it felt he said "Well, if you dont know you are a good mother there is nothing I can say, and I am not going to change your mind." So I walked out of my room crying and have been in a major funk ever since.
    What I need is an honest opinion. Am I being over dramatic? Am I being super sensitive, or do I have a just reason for being hurt?
    I appreciate your input.
    Thanks
    Kirsten
    Started Vaginal Valium Suppositories April 2014
    Hysterectomy April 2003 (for abdominal pain),Diagnosed with IC August 2003
    Diagnosed with Pelvic Floor Disorder 2004,Had right ovary and fallopan tube removed 2005
    Diagnosed with diverticulosis 2006,Interstim December 2006,Home Instillations 2007-not effective
    Diagnosed with Fibromyalgia November 2007,Appendectomy February 2008,
    Interstim repair December 2008,Removal of the Interstim August 2011,
    6 Hydrodistentions from 2003-2009 Diagnosed with restless leg syndrome March 2014
    Diagnosed with Raynaud's Syndrome November 2013
    Ambien 5mg for sleep.
    Elivil 50 mg at bed
    Lisinopril 20mg in AM
    Effexor 225 mg
    Oxycodone 10 mgs 2 x a day for pain
    Baclofen 20mg 3x a day
    Phenazopyridine 200 mg as needed
    Omeprazole 20 mg at night
    Lyrica 450 mg daily
    Requip .50 mg at night
    Ketorolac 10 mg as needed for migraines

  • #2
    Not knowing both of you, I don't know. It sounds like you're not having a very good day. I hope tomorrow is better.

    Donna
    Stay safe


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    • #3
      My heart so goes out to you. I remember feeling that way. Being sick takes so much energy. It is hard on the person with IC and the significant other. As long as you are in pain, it seems like to me you can't even think straight. Keep trying to get out of pain! Can you see a pain management specialist? Don't give up and think you are just going to have to live with it! Maybe one of the people on here can help you.

      I made a vow to myself that IC has altered my life, but it hasn't ended it. I'll be darned if I'm going to let it take away my family!!! Do what it takes and keep doing it until you find what works for you!

      Sending you hugs and some extra strength to keep you going.

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      • #4
        Thanks

        I am going to agree I am having a really bad and I pray that tomorrow will be a whole lot better.
        Started Vaginal Valium Suppositories April 2014
        Hysterectomy April 2003 (for abdominal pain),Diagnosed with IC August 2003
        Diagnosed with Pelvic Floor Disorder 2004,Had right ovary and fallopan tube removed 2005
        Diagnosed with diverticulosis 2006,Interstim December 2006,Home Instillations 2007-not effective
        Diagnosed with Fibromyalgia November 2007,Appendectomy February 2008,
        Interstim repair December 2008,Removal of the Interstim August 2011,
        6 Hydrodistentions from 2003-2009 Diagnosed with restless leg syndrome March 2014
        Diagnosed with Raynaud's Syndrome November 2013
        Ambien 5mg for sleep.
        Elivil 50 mg at bed
        Lisinopril 20mg in AM
        Effexor 225 mg
        Oxycodone 10 mgs 2 x a day for pain
        Baclofen 20mg 3x a day
        Phenazopyridine 200 mg as needed
        Omeprazole 20 mg at night
        Lyrica 450 mg daily
        Requip .50 mg at night
        Ketorolac 10 mg as needed for migraines

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