So it has been a long and exhausting, emotionally draining, and severely depressing last couple of years. This last two months though really seem to be taking everything out of me. I am in so much pain that I can barely survive everyday. My husband and I are living two separate lives. Don't get me wrong I love him and he loves me, but it is like we are roommates and just living together.
Just when I think that I am doing well mentally something like this happens. So in general my husband tells me that I have raised our kids because he was in the military and was gone a lot. Then he says things like well our kids are spoiled and vain and that the difference between my kids and him as a child is he had no idea about money. Ours have a sense of money and that is why they are terrible with money because they are so spoiled and vain.
It hurt my feelings alot and when I said how it felt he said "Well, if you dont know you are a good mother there is nothing I can say, and I am not going to change your mind." So I walked out of my room crying and have been in a major funk ever since.
What I need is an honest opinion. Am I being over dramatic? Am I being super sensitive, or do I have a just reason for being hurt?
I appreciate your input.
Thanks
Kirsten
Just when I think that I am doing well mentally something like this happens. So in general my husband tells me that I have raised our kids because he was in the military and was gone a lot. Then he says things like well our kids are spoiled and vain and that the difference between my kids and him as a child is he had no idea about money. Ours have a sense of money and that is why they are terrible with money because they are so spoiled and vain.
It hurt my feelings alot and when I said how it felt he said "Well, if you dont know you are a good mother there is nothing I can say, and I am not going to change your mind." So I walked out of my room crying and have been in a major funk ever since.
What I need is an honest opinion. Am I being over dramatic? Am I being super sensitive, or do I have a just reason for being hurt?
I appreciate your input.
Thanks
Kirsten
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