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    my sister in law.

    well i know ya'll have heard me fuss about her before but this time she is going to get help she has no chose in the matter but what she does after she get out of rehab is another story. My mother in law threw her out of the house on Christmas eve she told her mom she was going to Kill her so Joyce called the law and made her leave the house. well Joyce My mother in law stayed all night here at the house that night because Tonya riped out the phone lines. When my husband took his mother back home Christmas day after dinner Tonya was back in the house They didn't know she was there my husband said a few thing then that hurt her feeling but he didn't know she was there and it was nothing but the truth!
    Today they was getting ready to go the court house to make her get help she really is a danger to herself and everyone around her while we was on the phone Tonya had a serour (sp?) they called 911 so tonya is on her way to the er my husband and his mother is on the way to the court house to sign the papers so the er will not release her and make her get some rehab help before she is able to come back out. I just pray to God this helps.
    She keeps telling everyone when she is in her right mind she wants help but yet she is to scared to get it herself. So just maybe this will help her. she has lost everything but her life she is only 31 she has a chance to start her life over with the right help so all of you please help me pray for her and keep your finger cross this will help her.
    Thanks everyone for your support. grouphug
    Medicine taken daily or as needed:
    1. Heaprin and Marcaine rescue installment 1 to 3x daily as needed.
    2. MS.Cotin 100mg 3x daily
    3. MSIR 30mg 1 or 2 every 4-6hrs as needed for breakthrew pain.
    4. Fentanyl 100 mg Change every 48hrs.
    5. Gentamicin 80mg install after each rescue treatment
    5 Leviquin 500mg self start as needed.
    6. Klonopin 1 or 2 daily as needed.
    7. Prosed/DS as 1 every 6hrs as needed.





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  • #2
    Sending prayers your way for your sister-in-law, really hopes she gets help this time, she is so young and wasting her life. Let us know how it all goes, hope she gets into rehab and stays until she can function normally. Prayers for you as well Rhonda, you have stuck with it through thick and thin, hugs and prayers Iris. grouphug angel angel
    Today and every day you are loved, so don't be anxious about tomorrow, God will take care of you tomorrow; Live one day at a time.

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    • #3
      grouphug grouphug grouphug Prayers are for you and your sister in law.
      Hang in there , There is hope.
      There is hope. Prayer works.

      Love, Debbie

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      • #4
        Rhonda,

        I hope so much that she is able to get the help that she needs. She is young, and I think it would be so great if she could turn her life around. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts.

        Hugs and love,
        Jess grouphug
        Mommy to 2 crazy, wonderful kids and wife to the most amazing man in the world!

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        • #5
          Rhonda,
          I hope this helps her get the helps she nedds, but as hard as it is she has to want to get help and want to stop the things she's doing. got everything crossed that she gets help. I know what its like to lose "almost" everything.
          Brat
          'The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.'

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          • #6
            Prayers headed your way. If she has talked about wanting help, she may be an excellent candidate for rehab. Frequently addicted people don't want to go into rehab because they don't think they can succeed --- hopefully they will be able to work with her and convince her that she can do it.

            Please keep me posted on how she is doing.

            Warm and gentle hugs,
            Donna
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            • #7
              I hope she will get the help she needs. It will be a rough time, but I hope she can open her mind a little to what she will hear in rehab. Lots of prayers for her. kissing
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              • #8
                Very Sad news to report!
                the cops came out last night and took her to the er and the doctor at the er let her go home at 4 a.m. they even paid for her a ride home.
                Tonya called here this morning she doesnt know that we was trying to admit her she thought they done it because of her serour (sp?) yesterday and she wouldnt let the ems treat her or take her to the er. we called back to the rehab this morning after they spent all day getting these papers done and they said today it was all up to the er doctor if they thought she needed help
                it's sad but there is nothing more we can do.
                Keep praying for her i so much want to see her get her life back she is to young to lose everything like she has Her son dont want to be around her she hasnt had her daughter since she was 6 mths old Tiffany now is 9 and she so much wants to be with her mother. Tonya for the last 13 years has tried to break me and my husband up talks about me like a dog because i have tried to help her. I guess there is nothing you can do when someone just don't want to live she has laid in that house for two weeks now taking drugs running a high fever she has the flu and want get help. and with her serours (sp?) its so sad. and since she isn't happy she doenst want anyone else around her to be happy we want even let the kids go see there grandmother because of her being there. she thought it was funny to call the house today and say she was at home they didn't win. When i took Joyce home today we found a note that read. Mom i'm gone with a friend to find me some nerve pills and something for pain. a letter for that states what she is doing but yet the law want make her have rehab she is killing her self slowly and she knows it. one min she talks about getting help and wants help and the next min. she said she has no problem. it's such a sad thing to live that type of life. frown
                Medicine taken daily or as needed:
                1. Heaprin and Marcaine rescue installment 1 to 3x daily as needed.
                2. MS.Cotin 100mg 3x daily
                3. MSIR 30mg 1 or 2 every 4-6hrs as needed for breakthrew pain.
                4. Fentanyl 100 mg Change every 48hrs.
                5. Gentamicin 80mg install after each rescue treatment
                5 Leviquin 500mg self start as needed.
                6. Klonopin 1 or 2 daily as needed.
                7. Prosed/DS as 1 every 6hrs as needed.





                I have IC, but IC doesn't have me anymore!

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                • #9
                  Sorry to read the news Rhonda, she is definitely wasting her young life, and I feel for her children. You have done the best you could possibly do for her, just by reading your posts. Hope prayers may help out, lets hope that God has a helping hand in this young woman's life, and can turn her around. Please keep us posted and let us know how she is doing, and take care of yourself. What a helpful, and caring young woman you are Rhonda, hugs and love Iris. kissing grouphug
                  Today and every day you are loved, so don't be anxious about tomorrow, God will take care of you tomorrow; Live one day at a time.

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                  • #10
                    grouphug grouphug grouphug Rhonda, you did all you could do for her, she has tohit rock bottom before she gets the helps she wants for herself . I suggest alanaon for you and your hubby. You did a good job. I guess the er dr didn't see a need for her to stay. I will be praying for you and your family and your sister in law. Let us know how you are doing and take care of you.
                    Hang in there , There is hope.
                    There is hope. Prayer works.

                    Love, Debbie

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