My personal opinion here but isn't sex pretty "heavy", I would think if you care enough about someone to contemplate sex with them that you would know them well enough to talk to them about your condition. I just feel that going to that level is opening up more of a commitment to someone and that he deserves to know what sex might cause. Isn't it unfair to him to not be open with him?
Please understand this is MY opinion and I am not trying to tell you what to do, just trying to put a different perspective on the situation. I wish you the best, whatever you decide to do. I honestly don't know EXACTLY what I would do if I were single, I was diagnosed with IC after 13 years of marriage so I do have a different view point. I do know that if I had been dating my husband when I was diagnosed and told him alll the facts that he would have been right there for me. I also know that if I were going to possibly be in pain after intercourse and didn't let him know ahead of time, he would most likely feel very guilty and like he caused me pain. I wouldn't want him to feel responsible for something that has nothing to do with him. If he knows he will be able to be more in tune with you and cautious so not to hurt you.
Take care, I wish you happiness and pain free days!
Please understand this is MY opinion and I am not trying to tell you what to do, just trying to put a different perspective on the situation. I wish you the best, whatever you decide to do. I honestly don't know EXACTLY what I would do if I were single, I was diagnosed with IC after 13 years of marriage so I do have a different view point. I do know that if I had been dating my husband when I was diagnosed and told him alll the facts that he would have been right there for me. I also know that if I were going to possibly be in pain after intercourse and didn't let him know ahead of time, he would most likely feel very guilty and like he caused me pain. I wouldn't want him to feel responsible for something that has nothing to do with him. If he knows he will be able to be more in tune with you and cautious so not to hurt you.
Take care, I wish you happiness and pain free days!
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