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    So last night was the first time me and my husband made love in a long time. And I was VERY scared and nervous because I DIDNT want it to hurt. Well, I told him at first that I might not be able to,well the first time he inserted I started crying REALLY bad, for like minutes because it hurt so bad. But I also think it might have also been emotions, but I also know it hurt really bad. And so my husband said "we dont have to go on, if you hurt so bad", and I will be here for you while we take baby steps forward. That was so sweet. But I said lets try again, because I missed being with him so bad, and so he tried again with more lubrication and we made it but not without pain, and once we got going it was nice. yes it still hurt a little but it was a little sucess. I am so proud of myself. Granted I did take a bath afterwards, and soothed my body, and I did have a little pain today but its a start

  • #2
    Congratulations!! I know how frustrating it can be when you can't be intimate b/c it hurts. Good Luck!!!


    • #3
      Sweet, Reminds me of the song It's Hust's so Good!
      Hugs Sandra
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      • #4
        I got some significant tailbone pain after my interstim surgery.

        Glad that you were able to have that experience. Sometimes intercourse just really makes you feel close to your partner.


        "A heart is not judged by how much you love; but by how much you are loved by others."
        ~ The Wizard of Oz

        "If I ever go looking for my heart's desire again, I won't look any further than my own
        back yard. Because if it isn't there, I never really lost it to begin with!" ~ Dorothy


        • #5

          Diagnosed with IC October 2005


          • #6
            My hubby and I did it last night, too. I think we did it really good:woohoo: :woohoo: I am pretty much pain-free today I followed all the tips from my PT and great sex tips from Jill. I even let my hubby try helping my PFD exercised that I had to do. It was scary at first, but after that, it wasn't that bad. But most importantly, I felt much closer to my hubby.

            IC Diagnosed in September, 2005

            My conditions are : IC, PFD, Allergies, and Constipation

            "It's not easy being grateful all the time. But it's when you feel least thankful that you are most in need of what gratitude can give you."

            — Oprah Winfrey


            • #7
              Congratulations....That is wonderful :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
              Miss Bessie

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