I am so frustrated! My husband and I tried to have sex today. I used the guidelines on the forum. I have a problem when I try to raise my right leg I have bad pain in the bend of my leg next to my vagina. We tried different positions but when I was comfortable my husband could not get correctly aligned for him. Finally he said he was giving up
. He has been acting angry ever since. I did all I could and don't feel too good after trying to be intimate for him and having him just get upset. It just makes me want to cry. I was diagnosed in November 2010 and this is the first time we have tried to have sex due to my pain. I have finally been feeling better after the Elmiron has kicked in and I had 9bladder instills. That's why I thought we could try. Now I wish I had never tried. Does anyone else have the pain like this? I rubbed lidocaine jel on it before we started but it didn't help. I just really needed to vent.


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