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    ICNDonna
    ICN Staff

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    I do understand. I lost my brother six years ago to cancer. It was such a helpless, horrible feeling. Let your uncle know you love him --- and keep him in your prayers.

    And come here to cry. It does help.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know you're facing a very difficult time.

    Love,
    Donna

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  • Jen_Cole
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    I'm sorry things have been so unfair for you, Brat. I'm thinking of you.

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  • Dixiefireball
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    I can somewhat relate to what your saying i have been threw watching my mother die right before my eye's it is a hard thing to go threw. I know tonight you said you was flareing Hon its the stress. I wish I could help you with this stress but all i can do is pray for you like you asked and be here for you when you need me. Try to relax i know that is easier said then done. go see your uncle he loves you too. and do it while he can still see and talk to you and knows who you are. be brave for him he needs you and all your family right now. I pray he does die pain free. at least he will be in a better place! let me know if you need to vent hon you know i always have a shoulder you can cry on. wink grouphug

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  • tigger_gal
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    NOTHING MORE THEY CAN DO

    HI I didn't know where to post this because all the prayers in the world will not help... Today they sent Uncle Don home, he has cancer scream there is nothing else they can do for him. the chemo ate up all his blood platellets (I guess, because they are really low) so they had to give him 3 pints/units of blood, and said they cannot do any more chemo on him.
    Remember what and what not to say is hard.
    don't tell him how good he looks, for he is not the 225 lb man he was at christmas, hes 110 man with sunk in cheeks and to weak to sit,stand or walk...
    Don't ask him if hes hungry, because he is, but his stomache cannot toleate the food...
    don't ask him how he feels, for god sakes he's dieing.....
    don't tell him he shouldn't smoke, let him enjoy the only thing he has left to be capable of doing on his own....
    please don't let me go over there and break down crying ..... because I don't want to upset him..
    this is hard for me.... I have been flaring and doubled over in pain, because I am losing another person I love, its hard to watch a loved on die and I have watched 4 people die, my best friend, my wonderful neighbor, my grandpa, and now my uncle.. you want to fix it and you can't, you want it to go away and it won't. you want to forget, but you never will.....
    so please pray for my family to get thru this as no prayers will help my uncle except plesa god let him fall asleep pain free and never wake up....
    thanks
    Cindy
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