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    I'm always unhappy and depressed, how can I not be. I'm always in pain, hard to be a barrel of laughs all of the time. I wish I could be like I used to be, God how I wish. I'm *****y now, easily irritated. Anyone having this problem?

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    OH YEA <img src="graemlins/scream.gif" border="0" alt="[scream]" />
    I look in the mirror and I wonder who in the heck it is staring back an me cuz it sure ain't me [img]frown.gif[/img] It takes along time for us to start to come to terms with this disease and the destruction it can cause for some of us. It takes at least double that for our partners to understand and work thru it for themselves. I think the holidays are especially hard on us because there is so much we 'want' to do and our bodies refuse to let us do's hard living with a body that you are totally p8$$ed at.

    You are not alone....we all get thru it the best we can. Sending tons of hugs~
    Courage does not always roar. Sometimes, it is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow".


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      I do know where you are coming from and I can totally relate. I think every IC patient has experienced this feeling from time to time...which in my opinion is normal with this type of condition. Like you said, when we are in pain/hurting how can we have a smile on our face. <img src="graemlins/scream.gif" border="0" alt="[scream]" /> There are those days where you want to just lay in bed and feel like crying ! [img]frown.gif[/img] Days where you snap at anyone for the least bit thing that upsets you. [img]mad.gif[/img] And then those days where you wouldnt even think you have no such thing as IC. [img]biggrin.gif[/img] We have to take it one day at a time and hope it gives us the best. The one thing I think that is very important to have with this condition is support. You for sure have life-long friends and support here but you need family that understands as well. I know it can be hard and stressful at times, but just keep thinking about what tommorrow will bring and hope and pray it will be better ! I know better days are coming for you. If you ever need anything were all here for you and we will help you in any way you need. Sending you thoughts and prayers. <img src="graemlins/angel.gif" border="0" alt="[angel]" /> Take care. ((HUGS))

      ::::Happy Holidays::::

      ~Alison~ <img src="graemlins/bunny.gif" border="0" alt="[bunny]" />