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  • #16
    Cindy, Carolyn might have a point there. Let your sister and others know that you will talk to them but some things will be off subject otherwise you will hang up. You are allowing them to torture you with words and you can put a stop to it.

    Cindy, I did have to do this before. It wasn't easy, but it stopped all the non-sense. Now things are fine and now I am talking to this person. You have to let them know you are not there to listen to garbage and listening to critizism.

    I hope things will turn around for you and they will know you are not out to get them but your main concern is Jake.

    Sending hugs and many more, Trishann


    • #17
      I honestly am just so angry I don't know what to say Cindy. That doesn't happen often to me. If I get po'd I just rattle away at the keyboard. I can't even do that. I'm just stunned that you are having to go through this. I'm so angry and hurt for you. Know that I may not be able to say much but you are in my heart and my prayers okay?



      • #18
        Hi girls.. you are right and I set it in play Monday.. My sister called me and asked how the visit was, and I said I had no clue I wasn't there.. Jakes Chauffeur picks him up and takes him.. Them she proceeded to tell me that Christina left her a message and she put a dollar in his pants pocket for M&M's. I said ok, thanks I didn't know that. Then she started to talk about her, and I said, hang on there's my caller ID beeping, I said, I just have to go and let Dave take this call
        Christina did buy Jake a used plastic tricycle with a handle, it folds under the wheels to make a rocker bike. It is really cute, but we already have one in the back yard..
        Thanks girls for letting me vent so much about all of this. It is very difficult to say the least. I am grateful to each and everyone of you for your continued support.
        I did talk to my nephew too, my sisters 17 year old son she hides every thing from, and he asked me once Christina's rights were terminated will I allow her to come to my house and see him? I said absolutely not, she is not welcome here. He had no idea why, and I filled him in, wrong or right I did it because it was going to come out in the end, and I don't think he needs to be left out or "sheltered" he is 17 (will be 3/5).
        I also told him that I have no intentions on talking about any of this any more, if any one wants to know what is going on then they need to go to court!
        'The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.'


        • #19
          How I wish I could take all the pain, both physical and emotional, away! I just want you to know, along with so many others here, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Carolyn said it so well. You have a huge cyber-family here sending you support and encouragement.


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          • #20
            "Never Give Up."

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            • #21
              YOu are in my thoughts and prayers.


              • #22
                where would I be with out you never ending support????
                My niece has admitted to her brother that she is back and living in the motel with James. We just don't understand how much she loves him.. Its a shame that she chose and abuser over her son.. Thank God, I love him like my own, and have flared over all of this from stress.. but you know what.. I would do it all again in a heart beat..
                Thank you girls I love you all.
                'The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.'


                • #23
                  Cindy I don't know how I keep missing these threads, but I didn't see it til now. I'm proud to know you, ya know that? You are just the best!
                  *IC-- Summer 2004; PFD--October 2005
                  *Fibro--Fall 2000; CFS-- Fall 2000
                  *MPS--Fall 2000; Crohn's disease-- 1997*IBS,GERD, *Migraines, hypothyroidism, GYN problems *Degenerative Disc Disease/scoliosis

                  Total Abdominal Hysterectomy--adenomyosis--9\08

                  04/17/09 Crohn's disease almost killed me with a combo of extreme constipation from pain medications. My bowel ruptured, I almost died from peritonitis and spent several days in the ICU then more in a private room on the floor. If you have any questions about severe constipation from pain meds please don't hesitate to send me a message.


                  • #24
                    Wow Cindy, I still can't get over that, having a little boy myself there is nothing in this world that comes above him. I know that's how you feel about Jake too. You really are amazing.

                    I have been diagnoised for 6 1/2 years now. I have taken a long break from the ICN but really miss helping out my fellow IC patients and want to get back into posting.
                    1st hydro 4/07 showed no visible signs of IC but tons of mast cells in all my biopsy samples which did prove IC.
                    2nd hydro 4/13/09 showed dark purple glomerulations and I had a capacity of 450 cc's. This hydro proved that my IC had progressed.
                    I have tried every oral medication as well as rescue instills and DMSO.

                    I have been lucky enough to see Dr Hanno, the top IC specialist in PA who has told me due to the fact that I have not responded to any "standard" treatments that I have a severe, end stage case of IC with a horrible quality of life (didn't have to tell me that last part!)

                    Proud wifey of Shane, mommy to Griffin, and step-mom to Logan and Gage
                    Also proud mom to the best Bullmastiff on earth, Claus


                    • #25
                      Thanks, I still am at a loss why someone would not try to even do one thing to get there baby back.. I just don't understand, and my mind just goes and goes ove this..
                      I have been in a non stop flair since the Jan court date. I knew this would be a long fight, and I knew the out come when it began. I just never knew I had it in me to choose the love of one over another. I never believed I could truly despise someone I use to love so much. I can't even look at her because I just want to knock her teeth down her throat. I'm sure in time James will, and on that note, I am teriffied that he is going to kill her.
                      I will never let her or him take this baby. I made a promise to him when he was 4 months old, that I would never let him get hurt again. When I took him in May for a complete head to toe x-ray they kept asking in different ways if he ever was treated for a fractured arm.
                      I guess what it all boils down to that I need to keep talking and getting it out. If I keep letting it eat at me Jake won't have a mommy, because this stress is going to kill me...
                      So thank you for letting me vent away with all of this.
                      'The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.'