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  • Trishann
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    (((((((HUGS and PRAYERS))))))))))).

    Take care, Trishann

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  • Babs RN
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    Patricia,
    Some of these guys--jeepers. You know that I have been involved in a NASTY dispute too and you have all my support too. My prayers are with you and your daughter.

    Hang in there. I have learned with my situation that even when it looked hopeless that as long as I looked out for Lindsey's good and stayed on the side of right I would prevail. It happened.

    Hugs,
    Barb

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  • leelee88
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    Patricia,
    I am slidell, so thats a little ways from you.. But if yall ever come down this way just let me know

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  • patricia1
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    Friday we were waiting to see if he would show up. Cause the only way I would have let her go was with the Sheriffs office telling me she had to. My brother is a police officer, so he was telling me to keep the doors closed and locked (hubby was not home yet) and should he break in to well you know. He is just that crazy...But thanks I appreciate it.

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  • tigger_gal
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    I was thinkg the same thing about her being old enough to choose. I would not be home, or have the police waiting for him. I am with ya 100%. you have the emails, no cop in there right mind will send a kid with a nut like that.
    Sending you all big hugs and prayers
    I am so sorry that you have to go thru this, and sorry that he is putting your daughter thru it.

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  • patricia1
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    Thanks all. And yes I am saving all emails that he sent. But stupid him the email he sent her he cc his own attorney...According to my attorney she should have some say. She still wants to go, like one weekend a month instead of 2 and some say when she goes. She has so much going on right now and have been. He is the type that plays daddy when he wants to and it is convient to him. My son goes to his dad everyother weekend and some times when it is not even his weekend. I also let him stay as long as he wants. Just for the fact that even when we divorced 7 years ago he stayed committed to his son. He told me he would even write a letter on Taylor's behalf. When we were married he (taylors dad) did the same thing then.

    It just all came to blow with my Dad. His death really hurt my daughter and he did not call or anything. Even said I never told him, but I called him from ICU that morning and we got into a fight on the phone, because he said I was be shelfish not letting her go that weekend. So with my Moms help , Money wise, I went forward to help her get wanted she always wanted. I want her to have a say in her life. You cant start at 13 and just dec. to do the right thing and expect her to go right along with it and accecpt it.

    Thanks again guys. Also LeeLee I am in North Louisiana. About an hour south of Shreveport. My let blink your eyes town is called Catuna. lol

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  • leelee88
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    I am so sorry you are gong through this.. We just went through a trying time with my husbands ex.. Thank goodness it all worked out and I hope it will work out for you to.. BTW I am in La to, so if its somewhere close and you need me let PM me

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  • ICNDonna
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    Your daughter is old enough that she has some say in whether or not she sees him. I hope you are saving every bit of email, etc., that he is sending.

    I'll keep the two of you in my thoughts.

    Warm hugs,
    Donna

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  • dancemomof2
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    You got it Patricia, I know how hard it is to get one to go visit when they don't want to. I go threw it ever other weekend here. You have my support fully.

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  • patricia1
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    My Daughter and I

    Hi all I have not been on in a while..Right now I am going through a NASTY court battle from you know where with my daughters dad.

    A little back ground. My daughter is 13. Her dad has never gotten or seen or talk to her like he should have. He would go 3 or 4 months with out seeing her. Never calls and talks to her on the phone. And in 1999 when I got his child support raise he shorted me every month to the point he is over $20,000 in arrears. Well when my dad died in Jan he never called her or anything to tell her he was sorry. So anyway he remarries to a woman whom has 2 kids of her own, so in Jan he gives me this typed up list saying what weekends from now own he wanted to get her. Well I went to attorney about a month and half ago to have custody change. My daughter has never wanted to go when he called and I would make her crying and all. So on the 17th he go served court papers and he called this weekend wanting her. She is scared of him and did not want to go. This insued a 2 day battle that may end up with me in contempt of court for not making her go. She emailed him and told him why she did not want to come and emailed her a nasty email back. That he is in authority over her and she will not dictate when she comes and so forth. He has mental problems. In fact the woman he is married to now at one point both of her kids dads threaten to take her kids if she did not leave him. He left once several months ago and had everyone thinking he commited sucide. He has been arrested for domestic viol with the 3rd ex wife and so forth.

    So anyway just keep us in your prayers. Friday when he threaten to come with the sherriffs I was just waiting. My lawyer sent his another note stating that he has been in contempt for awhile and so forth.

    And my bladder has been in complete and total IC heck for days now. Thanks
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