I just typed the following response on another thread but it is so important to me that I thought I should start a new thread. Please keep in mind that I know it isn't the "easy" route and there a good deal of risks and complications but I still feel this way:
"It is so interesting that I ran into this thread. I hope someone is still looking at this and will see my post. I am frustrated as well about how these doctors refuse to even discuss bladder removal with you. I hear the same stories about how bad they are but then when I do my own research and look at other patient's stories, the picture is much brighter. I went 10 years without any treatment for my IC and then got a really bad cold this past Christmas. After that, I have been so bad off. I was just prescribed Elmiron, Elavil and Hydroxazine (spell?). After one dose of the first two (the evil Es as I like to call them) I had really bad reactions. I don't see how taking medicines that can cause heart attacks, coma, baldness, loss of vision, suicidal thoughts, strokes etc....are any better than just having the dang surgery. Why do they not let us make the decision for ourselves? We get the risks, we get the complications and the changes to our body because of it but if we are OK with that then why not just freaking do it? Is it an insurance thing? I'm so ready to go this route, bag and all but am afraid I will be forced against my will to suffer until I'm too old to enjoy life anyways. So frustrated. How can we talk them into it and how many stupid things do we have to try before they will? Seriously, what are all the stupid steps? Looking at the AUA guidlines isn't enough because people who have done all of those still get turned down."
"It is so interesting that I ran into this thread. I hope someone is still looking at this and will see my post. I am frustrated as well about how these doctors refuse to even discuss bladder removal with you. I hear the same stories about how bad they are but then when I do my own research and look at other patient's stories, the picture is much brighter. I went 10 years without any treatment for my IC and then got a really bad cold this past Christmas. After that, I have been so bad off. I was just prescribed Elmiron, Elavil and Hydroxazine (spell?). After one dose of the first two (the evil Es as I like to call them) I had really bad reactions. I don't see how taking medicines that can cause heart attacks, coma, baldness, loss of vision, suicidal thoughts, strokes etc....are any better than just having the dang surgery. Why do they not let us make the decision for ourselves? We get the risks, we get the complications and the changes to our body because of it but if we are OK with that then why not just freaking do it? Is it an insurance thing? I'm so ready to go this route, bag and all but am afraid I will be forced against my will to suffer until I'm too old to enjoy life anyways. So frustrated. How can we talk them into it and how many stupid things do we have to try before they will? Seriously, what are all the stupid steps? Looking at the AUA guidlines isn't enough because people who have done all of those still get turned down."

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